important to not overwhelm the boy with a dominating victory but didn’t want to teach him how to lose either.

The kid takes the rebound and taking a shot from almost under the hoop it bounces in off the rim and falls through giving him his first points. He throws his hands up in the air in victory and Steve turns back to him to smile. A rub of his head and he hands him the ball again to try to keep his winning streak rolling.

Andrew: So when I said going after what you want was associated with masculine behaviour, well women always use arguments like that for why guys have to be the ones to make the first move. When really it’s women who are playing against the clock so they should be the ones going after the good men, before we are so valuable we are out of reach for them.